".....would like to ask him some stupid questions like "how do you know a genuine love from a love that is not?" and "boys will alwaya be boys... yes... but how do you reconcile that with girls will be girls?"

you will be able to know that love is genuine if you you would no longer be thinking of yourself, you would be willing to sacrifice your own happiness for the person you love, you also do stupid things which you don't normally do like "inserting your shirt for the first time after 9 long years" ;p, you also begin to watch those sappy corny love story movies that you used to hate before, when you're together with her you seem to paced your steps with her even though you don't usually walk that slow, before parting ways....you always look back once in a while and at the same time going your way, you hit each other with a friendly "slap", and you also begin to hum those "gross" love song classics (eewww), sometimes when you just see her you just got something in you that you wanna bite her shoulder (nanggigil) and many many more. this is based through experience... mark


so, it's basically the idea of expanding one's love feeling.. real love is when you are not selfish anymore.it is when you are not in the so called "in love" feeling. (is that it?) everyone has his/her own love-love concept.. what is ideal may not apply to everyone.. and as to girls will be girls- well, men can never live without women! pchan

from mark...
first and foremost, when it comes to relationship, guys don't or never really count the time that has been spent on a relationship, what usually matters to us is the quality of the time spent with the girl whether it be months or years. now we proceed with the question "what then is quality time?". the answer is it depends, it may be the time when you both had an arguement wherein it reached to the point that you're both about to give up and then suddenly by a twist of faith one of you just had a changed of mind and decided to save the relationship; situations like this would really result to strenghtening your bonding. another example also would be in times when all the world is against you however you still stood by each other no matter what the consequences maybe.
"after 7 years together you're just going to throw everything away?!!!! grrrrrrrr". have you girls also asked yourself why the guy actually did this, maybe you've been cold over the last previous weeks or you may have been very busy over some useless activities which actually made us think also that we are no longer one of your primary concerns (yes KSP ang mga guys) and take note also that it is really never easy for us just to let go of a relationship, we are very aware that we are not handling things but handling humans that have feelings(maybe not all of us). but we are just considering a simple fact that if we are going to settle with the girl, she better be the right girl or we will be damned for all eternity spending the rest of our useless miserable lives with the wrong person, it's like a domino effect, when you're with the wrong person everything else also would be wrong like you're always on a foul mood, you seem to be living an empty life, your job sucks and finally it may even reached to the point wherein we are seeing a viscious evil hag in front of us where instead we should be seeing our bestfriend, our princess, our queen, our other half or the center of our universe. if we will stick to the basics Boys will really be boyz and alwayz be immature but our love is always genuine, it's just that most of the times it's the girl that changes and literally chokes us up.

...Inside the world of girls inlove…

What’s in a boy and girl relationship? One might say that there should be “love”.. “I love you… and I love you”; “do you really love me?”; “prove to me that you love me”- these happen to be “powerful words” of expressing “love”.
What is love anyway?… well, it could be something like “this” for someone, and like “that” for other someone and “should be” for somebody.. Whatever it is, it usually depends on the “love” of a person.. anything can be ideal… Confusing, right?
They say girls are faithful when they love.. That is why, they cry and hurt the most when guys leave them for “other girls” or for good.. others may resort to more serious acts of “ending” one’s life.. however, wrong or not, it can happen to guys, too.. (or does it not?..)
How do girls love? It’s only either they like the guy too much or not too much.. and from there is the start of complications--- inside the world of girls inlove…
Consider the following situations:
Situation 1: For four years, a girl and a boy seemed happy with their relationship… and it happens, the boy found a new girlfriend before breaking up with the girl.. naturally, the girl was hurt and told the boy “it’s over..” . worse, the boy didn’t say anything and just displayed a let it be attitude.. so the girl and the boy broke up.. and it ended up with the girl crying the most..
Situation 2: For seven years, a girl and a boy seemed satisfied with their secret relationship. The girl likes the boy so much and vice versa. Then it happens that the boy left her for another girl and got the girl pregnant without a formal break up with the girl… and it ended up again with the girl crying the most..
Situation 3: A girl happens to like this boy very much.. and tried to do things to get the boy’s attention… but the boy just doesn’t like her.. the girl tried a lot of things just to please the boy, and then the boy found out that the girl likes him, but no reaction at all.. so the girl continues to get closer with the boy….. suddenly, she found out that the boy got a girlfriend already.. and it ended up again with the girl crying the most..
Situation 4: A girl really wanted to have a boyfriend.. but just couldn’t find one.. there are guys who seem to like her, but she just doesn’t like any of them.. the girl wanted to fall in love naturally.. and the guy that she wants to fall in love with hasn’t arrived yet..
And it ended up with the girl sighing the most..
Situation 5: A girl who happens to have a boyfriend.. and tried to find another boyfriend.. and befriended another guy and become her boyfriend.. and so on.. something like hitting as many birds with one stone.. and it ended up with the girl envied with others girls… (how can she do that?!)
These situations are just one of those hundred situations in the world of girls in love.. and as always, the girls are the ones who cry a lot at the same time could easily justify their actions.. being in love is a really nice feeling and sometimes we can never really tell until we experience being in love.. girls appreciate most “sweet gestures”, kisses, cards, flowers, etc.. and throw them away if something awful happens.. but what does a girl dream most? Well, only a girl knows what’s best!